8.31.2010

Be Careful, It Might Be Contagious






I was thinking about my trip last year to New York. The flight out there was great, but on the return flight I had a two hour window to arrive in Chicago’s O’Hare airport to catch my flight back to Orange County. The plane out of La Guardia was delayed and I sat on the tarmac due to weather delays. Needless to say, I didn’t make it onto my connecting flight. United said that the rest of the flights were overbooked and would not be able to get me up in the air until morning. I opted to “sleep” in the airport. The airline wouldn’t provide me with a blanket or a pillow since I wasn’t on the plane and my luggage was headed to Orange County without me.

I watched the airport inhabitants turned from families to maintenance workers with mops and brooms. It was hard to find a quiet nook without the clang of rolling trash cans and vacuums. I settled on terminal 21. I laid there with my shoes on because as a child, I watched an ABC afterschool special, I feared that my shoes would be stolen like in a homeless shelter. I didn’t get much sleep and was pretty cranky until that morning.

In the morning, the first flight to Orange County was at 7:55am and I had a spot. As the time got closer to boarding, people started shifting about and looking at their cell phones and designer watches. As the boarding time came and went, people began to murmur. You could cut the tension in the air with a knige. Then one man turns to his wife and says “with how much we pay for plane tickets these days, you would think they would be able to look at a watch and take off on time.” Other people began complaining. Much like one domino falling in a row, you heard a chain of frustrated sighs across the terminal. At about 8:45am, they announced we would be boarding shortly. In anticipation, people stood up, crowded the doorway and began jockeying for position like horses approaching the finish line. Needless to say, people were now even more frustrated than before, because the contagious discontent washed over passengers like a tsunami. Being negative is contagious and spreads like cancer. Left untreated, it can be deadly.

As the time came to, those with small children were called to board. As my section was called I walked past the entrance and waiting to get to 17C. In first class was this toddler with headphones on watching a Disney movie on a portable DVD player. She smiled and giggled with carefree abandon. It was quite amazing to see passengers in front of me shift from disgruntled to happy at the sight and laughter of this young child. It served as a reminder that we are in fact contagious by association. We sometimes forget how much power we have to make someone’s day. The choice is yours, so choose wisely.

Wishing You Wealth in all its Greatest Forms,

1.25.2010

A Reminder for the Way Forward







On a brisk Sunday morning, I woke up weary. The weather was the rare kind in California where you can actually see your own breath. The sun was shining after nearly a week of nonstop rain, ridiculously dubbed “Storm Watch 2010” by all major media outlets. As I stepped outside to feed the fish in the pond, I noticed that a snail seemed to be trapped on a cactus. All the other snails had probably already hidden themselves away before dawn. Snails are like vampires, they only come out under the guise of darkness.

There is a natural inclination to look down or judge those who move slowly. Whether, you are in line at the grocery store, in line at the bank or driving on the freeway. We think about all the things we could be doing if we just had more time. The reality is that if we had an extra 5 minutes, we would need 10 more and if we had 10, we would surely need an hour. We are always going to find time for those things that are important to us. For me, life sometimes moves at such a frantic pace that I fail to enjoy the moments since I am so caught up in accomplishing the goal, only to set another goal. I have to constantly remind myself to enjoy the moments that make up my days. Each moment can be a defining one.

Just like the snail, we sometimes end up in “sticky” situations. Often times, we have no idea how we got there and have no idea or plan of how we are going to get through it. I have learned time and time again that by committing yourself to making small strides in the right direction, that you not only figure it out, but might learn something along the way. I wouldn’t give up one mistake for another five years of life.

The snail slowly navigated all of those sharp cactus spines and was eventually rewarded with freedom two hours later. I think that is eleven months in snail years. We have eleven months left in 2010, so let's live and play full out.

Wishing You Wealth in all its Greatest Forms,

Alex